Blog #6- Social Media

It’s rare in this day and age to see someone who doesn’t use social media. I know kids who are under 10 that use social media which absolutely blows my mind. I’ve always been one to have all the social media sites. I’m a nosy person and like to know what is going in. I use social media to keep up with everyone I know, especially if I don’t see them all the time.

The first social media that I got was Facebook, I don’t really remember when that was though. After a while though, I stopped using it, I guess because it wasn’t cool at that point in time and then I started using it again a few years ago. I feel like I use Facebook more than I use any other type of social media. I occasionally get on snapchat just to see what people are doing and sometimes I post stuff but it’s mostly when I’m at an event or something. I used to get on Twitter all the time but now I don’t ever get on it. There’s so much to look at on Twitter, that’s too much for me. Instagram is something I do try to keep up with because people are always posting on there. I guess I post often on Instagram but I’m not excessive about it. I don’t ever post two pictures in one day that drives me crazy. I just mainly use social media to keep up with people that I don’t see every day.

I think some people still use social media as a form of communicating but some don’t. Some people use it to see how many “streaks,” “likes,” “retweets,” and “followers” they can get on their form of social media. I’ve seen people who have used it and to me it comes across as fake and I know it is fake because I know that person. People are portrayed differently on social media than they are in real life.

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The issue that has always bothered me most about social media, as mentioned in the “Terms and Conditions” article, is the aspect of putting up a front on social media;  trying too hard to show other people how many friends you have and how much fun you’re having. I’ve never been a social media addict, but I’m guilty of this too at times. It feels like a trap my generation is inevitably stuck in (especially girls). I’ve heard people say so many things that reveal a lot of negative aspects of our society.  For example, “I already have a caption for tonight,” before even arriving to whatever event it may be. The pressure of putting up a front on social media is a serious problem that a lot of people don’t even recognize.

Then there’s the comparison game, when girls see other posts and wonder whether or not they’re as good as the other person, if they don’t have enough friends, if they don’t go to enough parties, or why they don’t get as many likes. In a way, this may have gotten even worse in college. People are trying to seem like they’re having the time of their lives, and are more concerned with photos and social media than actually having the time of their lives. I think this stems from the dependence our generation has on what other people think of us, myself included.

Personally, Instagram was my biggest problem, but I think I’m doing a lot better with managing social media time. In high school, I was concerned with  how my social life compared with other people’s sometimes. Now, college has me way busier, to the point where I often don’t have time to check social media. So far, college has been a great experience where I’ve been having fun in the moment wherever I am instead of focusing on social media.

 

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I still remember the first time I began using social media. I was in Athens in 6th grade visiting my cousins, when my cousin Claire introduced me to Facebook. Before that, I had no idea what Facebook was, and I was confused by the whole concept. She convinced me to make an account, and I vividly remember taking my first profile picture on Photo Booth in their den. I honestly didn’t know how popular Facebook was until I realized that so many people I knew were on it, so naturally I friended all of them. Ever since then, I have been on Facebook every single day. I definitely am not addicted to Facebook, but especially now that all of my best friends go to all different colleges, I really enjoy keeping up with their lives and seeing what they are up to. The second form of social media I started using was Instagram. Claire again was the one who introduced me to this new form of social media, and to this day, Instagram is one of my two favorite forms of social media. I love Instagram because unlike Facebook, you are encouraged to post only one picture from a certain event or day, not multiple ones with less meaning. By only posting one picture, you are able to get more likes and represent what you did in a more concise way. The other social media that I use is Snapchat. Snapchat is the other one of my two favorite forms of social media and therefore, I use it usually whenever I am on my phone. I use Snapchat so often because it allows you to have a glimpse into somebody’s day at the exact moment the Snapchat is sent. Snapchat makes you feel more connected with people and like you are included in that person’s life.

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I was never that big into social media, mostly because I just see it as something really exhausting trying to maintain.  I check my Instagram feed pretty much daily, but I very rarely post because I never have think, “oh this is a great picture that everyone would want to see!” I also see how annoying everyone else is with their social media posts that I am so afraid of becoming remotely like that. I also see how negatively it can effect people when they really don’t have a filter.  Also, my dad works for Comcast and whenever they’re hiring new employees, the first thing they check is the potential employee’s social media, if there is anything remotely questionable (racist/sexist/drugs) they are automatically ruled as unhireable, and it’s likely that you won’t be told that it was because of something you posted four years ago, so all of this has left a bad taste in my mouth about social media. However, I still check my social media so that I can keep up with the latest drama and see what other people are posting.

In the article about “Terms and Conditions”, it made a good point about people posting for approval or satisfaction from others.  Even as bad as it sounded with people posting about funerals just to get more likes or more of a reaction from their followers, I still found it to be very true.  When someone that I followed posted a picture of himself crying after his great grandma died, I just kind of sat back and was so confused on why someone would ever feel the need to post a picture of themselves crying. But this is also similar to how people constantly post way too much about their relationships or breakups.  It’s just a way for people to get more likes on their posts, and they can feel better about themselves because they got a fake “oh my goodness I’m so sorry” or “y’all are couple goals!!!” comment on their posts.

Social Media

In this generation, it is rare to meet an individual who does not interact with others through social media. Social media has grown to be a huge part of my life and impact how I behave. My first form of social media, like many others, was the creation of my Facebook account. I created my Facebook account when I was in sixth grade, not because I thought I needed one or really even wanted one, but because everyone in my school had one and I thought I should keep up on the trends. From this point on social media has impacted my life tremendously.

Looking back on my early posts of Facebook I cringe. Now I use Facebook as a more professional platform. I typically only upload photos as memories and avoid having statuses. Back in middle school, I thought it was normal to update my friends on the smallest things of my daily life. After middle school Facebook basically died. I did not log onto my account for approximately 4 years because newer and more exciting social media platforms arrived. There was a revival for Facebook for me around my senior year of high school because I had to present myself in a normal way, and not have someone look me up and only see my 7th grade self. Now in college, I use Facebook regularly to keep updated on important things in my life like sorority news.

Other platforms of social media that have strongly impacted my life include Instagram and snapchat. The arrival of Instagram was a game changer. Facebook was great for the photos, but I had no desire to hear about individuals’ statuses. Instagram took away the importance of a status and made the entire platform revolve around the photos. Instagram to this day is very relevant to my life, because you can tailor your photo to how you want people to see you. It is honestly a very fake way of representing yourself.

Snapchat is the most informal form of my social media. In the beginning snapchat was used to communicate small things or simply funny situations to your friends. I still do this occasionally, but now the majority of the time I am sending mindless photos of my face to keep my “streak” with people going. Snapchat for me is almost a job because I have to remember to send the same photo to the same people every day.

A small quirk or difference about my social media use compared to others, is that I do not have a twitter account and never have. I find twitter to be pointless because it simply taking away everything I loved about Facebook and Instagram and leaving me with only status updates that I do not care about.

blog post #6 10/02 – social media

I agree with a lot of the claims of Jacob Silverman from Terms of Service. I think people subconsciously post things on social media for the small gratification and recognition they get from likes, shares, views, and comments. Instagram and Snapchat easily allow for you to show off to certain audiences where you’re at and what you’re doing. It’s almost like “we” need people to know we are having a good time without them, wanting them to wish they were here with us wherever we are. Social media even allows for some people to be so petty to the point where they will purposefully not like a post or view a snapchat. It gets that serious sometimes even though it should not be that deep at all. I am guilty of posting certain pictures just because I do want people to see what I have been up to, but I do manage to put my phone away to actually enjoy the event. I like to go through my pictures later and reminiscence on memories so documenting my nights isn’t a huge taboo to me, but if I forget it’s not the end of the world. It’s nice to see what other people are up to nowadays, especially since everyone is at different colleges, so I don’t mind people’s intention of posting certain pictures.

Since I came to UGA I have noticed people use Twitter less frequently, and they use Snapchat more. Every Snap Story you see from old high school friends is in a different setting with different people. Twitter cannot convey that through 140 characters, and like I said in my last blog post about media ecology, there is a different audience in college that you are “entertaining.” People checked Twitter back in high school because the tweets would be relatable since everyone you knew was in the same city; it acted like one big GroupMe. People in college don’t have time to check Twitter because they’re out making new friends, studying, or getting involved. Snapchat allows for people to give a look to old and new friends snippets of their life. It also serves as a self-gratification device because if we are going to be honest, the original poster will watch his or her Snapchat Story over and over again more than anyone else will. We put so much subconscious thought into our stories, wondering if people will think they’re fun or funny because we want people to know what we’re doing.

People still use social media for its original intent– interacting and communicating with others; however, there has been a shift in the way we use it. There is the pressure now of maintaining an internet reputation, an updated profile, and an exciting feed because it portrays your life in one screen to thousands of “followers.”

Social Media

I have always been a big social media user since the day I first got a Facebook in fourth grade. I see social media as a way to keep up with others and for others to keep up with me. Today, I have noticed that I use social media less because there are so many people now it is hard to keep up. After coming to UGA, I was bombarded with Facebook friend requests and Instagram follow requests by other people who go to UGA or older girls in my sorority. Of course I had to accept the requests and follow the people back so that they did not think that I was being rude, but now my news feeds are full of pictures and posts of people that I barely know. Because of this, I have not been as eager to check my social media as often. Now instead of being able to scroll through my feed and see pictures of my close friends, I must scroll through and wonder how/if I even know the person that posted the picture.

I have never been much a picture taker. This is partly because I am just too lazy to take a picture and partly because I feel like taking the time to have a photoshoot to get the perfect Instagram photo sort of distracts me from just enjoying the experience. My friends used to always say, “you know you had fun when you didn’t take any pictures or post any snapchat stories.” While some people post snapchat stories to share something funny with all their friends, I feel that sometimes people post stories just to show people how much fun they are having. It makes me wonder if they are really having a great time if they are spending the whole night on their phone on social media.

October 2: Social Media Post

First of all, these books both are very intriguing to me in the way that they sum up to transgression of social media. The reviewers respectably respond to talking points in the books with their own judgements and connections which adds to the overall theme that Social Media is beginning to shape not only our own lives, but the entire worlds. I personally have witnessed so much that is talked about in these books ranging from family members posting baby pictures of me 18 years later to scrolling through reddit reading about political social media and wikileaks. Just before I began college here my mom posted some sappy thing on Facebook with pictures of me as a baby and moving into my dorm, all with the intent of personal gratification and a mechanism for coping with change. Obviously I don’t blame my mom and am not bothered by this in the slightest, but this occurs so often in the social media realm where people post with the goal of emotionally attracting others to make them feel better about themselves. This is why like counts exist; my own theory is that if likes and follower totals did not exist, then social media would be a dead trend. Everyone is looking for self approval whether or not they believe it. This crosses into my next point in that people are constantly fantasizing about social recognition. I mean that by how people, young people in particular(such as myself sadly) always are planning on a good photo opportunity or caption while at a social event or destination. This is the first instinct of the millennial class. It is now more important to show other people how much fun you are having at a party or how good you look at the beach. It has even turned into a viscious cycle, in that people no longer judge themselves or others based upon genuine experiences and stories, but rather through like counts and post recognition.  This to me signals that social media is no longer just a method of mass communication, but a form of lifestyle direction. Social Media is alive and growing, and in time all people will realize this. This is what I interpreted from the articles as well as personal experiences.

Topic for blog post due October 2: Social Media

Read these reviews of two books about social media:

Then write a blog response based on these readings and on your own experiences with social media. Some possible issues and approaches:

  • Do you recognize your own experiences in the claims of these books (or of the reviewers)?
  • Do you take any steps to avoid some of the pitfalls these writers suggest?
  • What do you use social media for—and does it give you what you want?
  • Have your own social media habits changed since you came to UGA?

Media Ecology

At UGA, the media ecology is diverse, yet incredibly similar to that of other universities.

First off, here, GroupMe Is the most relevant form of communication between large groups. Dorms, majors, and organizations use GroupMe. It’s convenient and rather effective for communication.

Secondly, e-mail is incredibly relevant. Professors communicate with e-mail far more than anyone else of campus. Of course, students don’t latch onto the seemingly too slow rate of e-mail communication. We prefer the live, up-to-the-minute coverage of a text message or social media post.

Speaking of social media, UGA is also trying its best to become more relevant on social media. From changing our logo to updating more frequently on Instagram and Twitter, UGA is trying to connect to their students any way possible. It is even possible to read play-by-plays of football games on Twitter now.

Ecology media of UGA is somewhat diverse, but also incredibly similar to other universities.